Most of you here will not like this, but it is the truth, like it or not. Sex today has become a joke, mostly a one way train, where neither side is truly satisfied. Men believe they are because they are the ones who are mostly satisfied, in control. Women believe to make there man happy they need to be submissive, satisfying them selves, no control. Satisfying your partner is always the ultimate goal, but sacrificing yourself in the process is such a waste. Men today are lost when it come to totally satisfying a woman, bringing her to the point of greatest satisfaction, and letting her bask in the moment, that women will in turn do what ever it takes to get you there, just her no toys no pain. Until you have experienced this, having an orgasm at the same time while you are inside her, you really have no ideal what true pleasure is